Responsibility

Few days ago, my friends and I were going somewhere, in the car. As we are going down to KL tomorrow, two of us are driving so there'll be two cars. I'm not sure should I just write their names out or not, it'd make me much more easier to talk about the whole thing. But since it's not about something bad...I think it should be fine. And they don't read my blog anyway.  

There are six of us, Winnie, JH, Albert, PCW, CJ and me. PCW is not really involves in the story I'm gonna tell so we should just ignore him. 

*JH and CJ are driving.

Hmm all of em are my childhood friends and we're pretty closed since primary and high school. Or I'd say they are my best friends, not all lah. Am not really closed with PCW. =/ Our relationships are kinda... complicated but doesnt matter.

So JH and Albert are going after Winnie since long time ago (which everyone knows). Like really long time ago. Especially Albert, he has a crush on her since Standard 6, a first sight love (yes first sight love) in some.. function at his school (Albert was from a different primary school). 

Argh I really hate to talk about their stuffs. They are so complicated. Anyway it's not important. 

And recently, unfortunately (to Albert), the relationship between Winnie and JH is somewhat ambiguous. Apparently she'll be following JH's car. And me and CJ are very friends since long time ago so apparently I'll be follow his car. 

Here comes the problem. Me and CJ were wondering which car Albert wanna follow. Yada yada. He decided to go for JH's car.

Then I was like why? Dont you feel weird or something. Albert is actually living in Sabah currently and barely have that chance to back in Penang. So it's basically like... hopeless already. How many years already, isn't it time to give up? Since for so many years, you're not really aftering her anyway.

Nine years already, why wanna waste more time on something which it's not gonna happen. And guess what I said really made him frustrated, he said, haiya no one will like me wan lah something like that. Then I said, it's okay if no one likes you now. You can work harder, be a capable person. Have your own job, a stable income. Dont need to afraid no one likes you. 

Guess what he said, "cheh, I dont want a girl like that who likes me just because of that (money)."

Then I was like what the hell are you thinking? What do you expect if you have nothing at all? You cant think like that! To be a capable man, doesnt mean you attract girls with your money. It's a responsibility! Do guys really expect there're girls who will fall for them when they cant even capable to support themselves? Well I wont say there's none. But rare. He must has his strong points then that enough to attract the girl.

It's not about realistic or materialistic you know. Guys dont need to be super rich. Loads of girls didnt really expect to married a rich man. But he should at least has a real job. It's also a responsibility to themselves to have a better life.

Imagine a girl from a family with loves, gets everything she wants, married to you and she can only take bike, worry about what they can eat everyday. Maybe she doesnt mind because she loves you, she willing to do that for you, but is that a lifestyle you wanna give to someone you love? Dont you want her to have a better living conditions? She may not requested that but isn't that something a man should do? For her sake, and his own sake? 

Be a capable one for your beloved or your future wife. It might be difficult but should at least try your best. 'Cause not everyone can do that, I mean like became super rich and provide your wife a carefree life. But husband and wife can always share the responsibility, girls really dont mind. Some girls haha. 

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Anyway, we're heading to KL in 7 hours and I havent pack anything yet, AND I'M STILL AWAKE! Thank god I dont need to drive. xD I'm excited 'cause this is my first time to go somewhere far away from home with friends, driving our own, like adults! And I'm 22!! This exciting experience just comes too late! Hhahaha! 

Well not really the first time lah... but it's the first time with my gang of childhood friends! It just makes it different!

Lastly, let's wish Albert luck, for his doomed first love. 

Toodle!!

Singapore!!! Day 1 Universal Studio

So I asked my mum, when was the last time I went Singapore. Lost count man. Mum said at least 16 years. I was like wtf, I'm old enough to have something 16 years ago. Dang! Haha! Okay, this is not the point. Here are the pictures in the Universal Studio. The ticket's price is 66 dollars on weekdays but 72 dollars on weekends. -.- Hmph.


Mum forced me to wear it and snap it down. -.-


Lame cousins all dont want take picture wan. =/


So I've to camwhore. LOL!






I somehow like this picture. LOL!




Jasmine-The Thinker



Finally we're inside the Universal Studio!







We waited for soooooo longgggggggg, just to play

THIS.

Which not exciting at all! ;(


Roller coaster! My all time favorite! Okay, I'm sure it has a name but I dont know what's that. My cousin accompanied me for the red lane wan, but after that she didnt dare to play the blue lane anymore. -.- But I really really wanna try it! So I went up there alone. LOL! (I dont play alone normally.) And yeash! It was nice! Luckily I tried it, itherwise I'm gonna sooo regret hahaa.



Nice not the street??? I'm just so in love with it. >.<








They're awesome! Haha. As we were standing quite in front, I had been 'invited' to dance with them! Hahaha! Then he asked me through the mic,

'Do you have a boyfriend?'

'Nopeee.'

'Now you do.' *Big smile*

Sweet or not! I mean he's cute right!! xDDD


The castle!


The purple lizard kept on flirting me! Haha!








And I'm hungry. Haha.

More pictures to come! Wait for it!!! <3

Or you can see more on my Facebook!

Back from Kuantan!!!

Thank god the hotness there and the long journey didnt cause me dead. Stayed there for two days, I never eat a proper meal. What I ate is instant mee and bread omg. And also drank alot of water, must be 'caused of the weather, I felt thirsty all the time.

Since I stepped on the ground on Kuantan, no good thing happens. Guess what. So we were lost when we reached Kuantan as we already forgot the way to my aunt's house. Then we called my cousin come and lead us. We stopped the car at the roadside waited for him. We got out from the car and wait loh. Our car was park under a tree. And when I got down from the car, I heard loads of birds chirped and I saw loads of birdshits on the ground. Then I know, it's freaing dangerous to stand under the tree. So I walked away.

After awhile, I realized I left my phone in the car, so I walked back to the car to get my phone. AND SHIT HAPPENED!

That was really SHIT! ON MY HEAD! That was SO EW! My first gift at Kuantan.


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Anyway, I was waken up by a call at 11:13am from Northam Hotel, telling me that... the manager is satisfied with my attitude (should be something like that) and I GOT THE JOB!!!!! But I still dont know what I'm gonna do. Gonna go for another interview to talk about it. Haha!

If everything goes smoothly, I got the job, then I'VE TO FIND PLACE TO STAY IN PG ALREADY!

Asking in advanced, WHO NEEDS A HOUSEMATE???  Or ANY PLACE TO STAY???? xDDD

I feel so excited!

Kuantan *face palm*

Currently staying at my aunt's house using my cousin brother's Mac. Thought I can tahan until go home to touch my laptop but cannot.

Despite the hotness, here got no wifi. No wifi means boring.

Gah I dont know what to write! The hotness is disturbing my brain's system and it cant spin nicely. You know how hot it is?! No! You wont know! It is freakingly hot and like no word could describes how hot it is. Is the weather actually like that or here is really hotter than Penang??! Or 'cause I seldom expose to the sunlight? I all the while feel myself sticky no matter how often I bath. Plus here got no air-con. The house is hot, the room is hot, everywhere is hot.

HOTTTTTT!

Anyway, my parents and I are here 'cause we're coming to visit my aunt, which is my dad's eldest sister. She's fell sick (quite serious I think). I'm not sure what's the sickness but I heard something about too much calcium in the blood (I know it's not a correct way to say that -.-). So apparently she's staying in the hospital.

Visited her today. She looks so weak! Sha cant talk properly 'cause she feels suffering whenever she eats, sit up and talk. =( Though it's been so long since last time I seen her, I still can realise the obvious physically changes. She's is so thin now and she cant even remember us from the first sight even my dad told her who are we. But she remember it later lah.

Guess she cant accept it and she realised how weak she is that she cant even remember her own brother, she started to say something like going to my my grandma (already passed away). My mum comforted her said it's reasonable that she cant remember us 'cause long time never see us already. 10 years I think?

She some more said feel so sorry to us 'cause we come all the way from pg to visit her but she cant cook us a meal. Awww. =( No such thing my dear aunt!

Come to think of it, my aunt is actually quite.... kelian. 'Cause she's living alone. Her husband passed away years ago, both of her sons are working and staying outside at JB and Sg. Imagine an old woman living alone here. Everyday wake up no one talk to her, she has to cook herself, eat alone. And what she can do after b'fast? Sit in the living room, watch the tv show alone. No transportation. From what I know, she cant even walk like a normal people apparently she cant ride a bicycle. =(

I think she got friends here lah, stay here for so long already but how she goes out to find em? How she goes to the market?? The market is like so far! Takkan walk there meh. Before her husband passed away still got him ride her there but now...

Mum said if my aunt wants, she can come to stay with my grandma also. There got more people and she wont get bored. =D But dont know she wants or not. =/

But luckily her son, my cousin brother already resigned and came back to take care of her.

Anyway, still, we're leaving tomorrow evening. Gonna say bye bye to her. =(

Da gu! Hope you'll get well soon and come pg to stay with us!

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I've done a stupid thing. I shouldnt be such a big mouth on something which is not related to me at all. Omg I'm so regretful. Okay maybe I thought it was a tit bits related with me. Sorry for being such a bitch... =(

Chao!